We’ve been asked regularly to write an article on choosing your first sex toy – whilst 60 percent of women admit to owning one or thinking about buying more pleasure items, there are still 40 percent of women who haven’t.
From experience, we know this can be down to a number of factors: knowledge, fear or quite plainly not interested from a moral stance. They may also have been bought a toy from a lover that didn’t float their boat because it looked menacing for a first experience.
So, what would a newbie need to consider when choosing a sex toy?
There are a number of issues which we will cover in this article that hopefully will help the inquisitive newbie in their thirst for new adventures:
What kind of pleasure are you looking for?
Toys perform can fulfill number of different sexual tasks, depending on your individual desires. Are you looking for stimulation of the clitoris, g-spot or both?
Not wanting to scare the horses may we suggest for starters, clitoral stimulation – you may already be familiar with bringing yourself to orgasm by your own hand or with the help of a lover. In which case a clit stim toy is a great option for you to start out in your pursuit of pleasure.
Not forgetting a good lubricant, which is also an excellent pleasure item in itself and should always be used for self pleasure and when using a toy. Dry never did anything for anyone and the slippery sensation of a good lube heightens sensation.
Things you may want to consider:
Look and Feel
Size and shape are vital in choosing the right toy for the task. Clitoral toys are less intimidating and tend to look like a discreet massager, pen or stone.
Intensity may also be important, how powerful will the toy be and how noisy? Thankfully these days most good toys are virtually silent. So the neighbours or other people in your household will be unaware of your twilight adventures.
Compact toys are also very portable. Some can be worn, put in a handbag or come with their very own discreet carry pouch.
Does your toy require batteries? Or is it re-chargeable. Both have varying benefits depending on circumstance.
The type of material a toy is made of is not only important for the sensation it gives but is vital to your wellbeing.
Some toys still contain an additive that leaches a toxin into your body and causes hormone disruption – phthalates has previously been used to make rubber jelly-like finishes for a natural feel in toys such as rabbit vibrators.
We suggest only choosing luxury toys made from silicone, metal, safety glass or hard ABS plastic. Little Shop of Erotic Delights only stock body safe toys – we believe that it’s the right thing to do. If we wouldn’t use a certain toy, then we wouldn’t want to sell it to our customers.
Note: A toy made with phthalates will feel jelly-like and smell highly of a chemical, a bit like nail varnish remover or strong pear drops. If you already suspect you have one, we advise using a condom over this toy or better still, replacing it completely to be on the safe side.
The other benefit of choosing a luxury body safe sex toy is that they house deluxe functions often able to multi-task where not possible with a hand or mouth and are made of the highest grade materials, not only for pleasure but for durability.
May we suggest for your new pleasures…
LELO Nea is our finest luxury brand – made of safe ABS plastic, this little love stone will provide you with 5 stimulation modes, from a soft flutter to intense pulsing. All the while, virtually silent. A two hour recharge will provide you with 7 hours of pleasure.
ROCKS OFF 150
Needing something extra long, for hard to reach areas. The Rocks Off 150 bullet vibrator, in luxury gold metallic finish is pen sized. Perfect when making love with your partner, to stimulate your clitoris and when you want a deeper sensation. 5 speeds and waterproof. Made from safe ABS plastic. Battery operated.
JIMMY JANE POCKET ROCKET
Jimmy Jane’s perfectly portable pocket rocket vibrator is easy to use; twist to operate, use with the lid on for a smooth experience or remove the cap to reveal the nodule end for a completely different sensation.
ROCKS OFF ROVAL
A discreet, virtually silent, multi-speed bullet vibrator with roll control – round edges make it perfect for both clitoral and nipple stimulation.
Gold in colour and presented in a luxury gift box, it’s perfect for those that like that bit designer bling with their sex toys.
Once graduating from your first adventure… may we suggest:
LELO Gigi has five pre programmed pleasure modes and a virtually silent vibrator engine delivers deep and vibrant sensations with spot on precision. As an expert in her field Gigi will happily assist in revealing the thrills of the elusive G spot anytime, anywhere.
MULTI FUNCTIONAL STIMULATION
LELO INSIGNIA SORAYA
LELO Insignia Soraya has a flexible stimulator that fits your body perfectly and feels moulded especially to please your every contour.
As well as having its own clitoral stimulating bullet part, Soraya also features 6 different settings to ensure you reach your peak and provide variety for your personal play, either solo or with a partner as part of foreplay. Made of body safe ABS plastic & silicone and waterproof.
VIBE THERAPY DELIGHT
Vibe Therapy Delight is our traditionally shaped luxury rabbit toy. Easily controlled by the simple to use, touch button display panel, you are sure to find delight in every one of its 7 powerful yet discreet vibrating functions.
Your clitoris is guaranteed to be vibrated to ecstasy every time, stroked and teased by the extra long rabbit ears on the clit stimulator. Made from medical grade silicone.
NOTE: With silicone toys, always use a water based lubricant.
We hope we have given some insightful advice to help in your desire to find the perfect toy experience. Buying a sex toy needn’t be a worrying experience, if you still have any questions on choosing the right sex toy for you or your partner. Contact: email@example.com and for more information about Little Shop of Erotic Delights visit www.e-delights.com.
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Article written by:
Elizabeth – Little Shop of Erotic Delights